How To Date Yourself
How to date yourself. Doesn’t that sound crazy? Why in the world would somebody want to date themselves? And what does dating yourself even incline? Believe it or not dating yourself has so many benefits when it comes to dating other people. Dating yourself is honestly just learning yourself. Learning what you like to do and doing it alone. Self-love is beneficial to finding a partner. You have to know how to love yourself before you can expect somebody else to love you. I learned this the hard way. I’ve always thought I had self love. I always thought I wasn’t afraid to be alone. But once that big three zero hit I started learning so much more about myself and that I actually just might be afraid of being alone. Being thirty and single has its negatives. My biological clock is ticking. Nobody will want me I’m old now. But these are all negative thoughts we have to keep away from our energy. So, I started to learn how to date myself.
Thirty years old and I’m just now dating myself. I wish I would’ve done this years ago. I’m so upset. But I’m writing this article to help other people and hopefully catch some people that are younger than me to jump on the boat and date yourself so that your dating life can be more successful. Dating yourself consists of sitting down with yourself and making it known what you want out of life or even in a relationship. Write it down. I’m a firm believer in journaling and manifesting the life that you want. Write down your wants, write down how you can turn those wants into reality. And then mediate, envision exactly what you wrote down. Take a nice hot bubble bath. Dating yourself is all about you and what you want to do. Go work out, work on your temple. Make sure that you are the healthiest version of yourself. Massages are great for relaxation. Go treat yourself to a nice massage. If you are into getting your nails done, go get a mani pedi. We all love to go shopping. Shop till you drop. Spoil yourself. You don’t need anybody else to spoil you. People hate going out to eat alone. It’s awkward, people stare at you. It makes it seem like you don’t have any friends or that you are a loner. F all that! Take yourself out to eat and own that table by yourself. It’s ok to go out to eat alone you don’t need company to enjoy some yummy food.
Do you guys see what I am doing here. We have to make it ok to be alone. We have to find our own happiness. We can’t rely on other people to give us that. Once we are able to give that to ourselves, we learn the difference between actually loving somebody for them or just thinking you love them because you don’t want to be alone. HUGE DIFFERENCE! Love yourself people! You deserve the best. Give it to yourself first. So that once somebody else brings it to the table you aren’t blindsided by that, and you’ll be able to look at the person for them and not just somebody keeping you from being alone. Because once we have self-love we realize being alone is not a terrible thing after all; it’s actually ok! I can’t believe I am saying this, but I love this for me. I want this vibrant energy for everybody!!